There is time for a change?
Dear Sirs, please allow me to express my point of view on the relations between men and women. I ask you to read this with patience till the end. Finally, if you will be interested, I invite you to leave a short comment.
I will start with a rhetorical question, namely: 'What Women Want? “
We men spend far too much time trying to understand the answer. Interestingly, I heard some ladies saying that in fact, most of them women often do not know what they want. Funny, is it not?
But I think more important is to know what they want when it's about us men. In an almost absolute majority, any woman is looking for a man intelligent, articulate, courteous, and polite, with career, efficient in terms of sex and money as ever.
And because we are so desperate to find the answer and use it into practice, what we do in these situations? We will consume time, energy, money, emotions, feelings and other various resources to enter into a relationship with a woman.
What about afterwards? There is no secret that the divorce rate in the world and especially in Europe is worryingly high. Even more interesting is that in most cases women are the one who initiate the divorce. The reasons are varied. Usually, after ten or fifteen or even twenty years of marriage, they do realize that they are happy, that there are no communication or simply not compatible with her husband’s and now once that they have realized this, they will be in need to try something new. They simply do not love us and have decided that they cannot continue this way.
Now let's talk a little about us, men. So at this moment we are alone and life must go on, obviously. We try to get involved in another relationship. But the second time will be a little more difficult to find a partner. And that happens for reasons known to us all.
What if we have no results? Than we will persevere till we succeed and find us something. I do not have the intention to teach or advise anyone some lessons about how to be efficient in finding a new partner or possibly more. First I address men who are single for one reason or another and I ask them: Do we really need to be engaged in a relationship with a woman? There is no other way?
I must open a parenthesis to mention sis are not gay and do not intend to become in the future. And also I want to emphasize that I have got nothing against gays or lesbians.
What if we use in our favor all the resources we squander (most times) to find the 'right person' that we cannot live without. It is assumed that women are equal in rights and obligations. Is it really so? I think they actually have more rights and benefits than us, men. Especially when it comes to divorce, we men have the most to lose.
I think it is our fault, because it is us who put them, the women, in a favorable position always. I want to repeat that I am addressing to men who consider that 'enough is enough and something must be done'.
We are not sufficiently united and in solidarity with ourselves. It is very normal to exist the competition and rivalry between us men, because it makes us stronger and more confidants. But this should only be rivalries between us and in any case between us, on one side, and women on the other side, and especially no rivalry between men because of a woman.
As we look after woman, also they looked after us. As we wonder if we are good enough for some women we like, at the same time they ask themselves the same questions.
But I think more important is to know what they want when it's about us men. In an almost absolute majority, any woman is looking for a man intelligent, articulate, courteous, and polite, with career, efficient in terms of sex and money as ever.
And because we are so desperate to find the answer and use it into practice, what we do in these situations? We will consume time, energy, money, emotions, feelings and other various resources to enter into a relationship with a woman.
What about afterwards? There is no secret that the divorce rate in the world and especially in Europe is worryingly high. Even more interesting is that in most cases women are the one who initiate the divorce. The reasons are varied. Usually, after ten or fifteen or even twenty years of marriage, they do realize that they are happy, that there are no communication or simply not compatible with her husband’s and now once that they have realized this, they will be in need to try something new. They simply do not love us and have decided that they cannot continue this way.
Now let's talk a little about us, men. So at this moment we are alone and life must go on, obviously. We try to get involved in another relationship. But the second time will be a little more difficult to find a partner. And that happens for reasons known to us all.
What if we have no results? Than we will persevere till we succeed and find us something. I do not have the intention to teach or advise anyone some lessons about how to be efficient in finding a new partner or possibly more. First I address men who are single for one reason or another and I ask them: Do we really need to be engaged in a relationship with a woman? There is no other way?
I must open a parenthesis to mention sis are not gay and do not intend to become in the future. And also I want to emphasize that I have got nothing against gays or lesbians.
What if we use in our favor all the resources we squander (most times) to find the 'right person' that we cannot live without. It is assumed that women are equal in rights and obligations. Is it really so? I think they actually have more rights and benefits than us, men. Especially when it comes to divorce, we men have the most to lose.
I think it is our fault, because it is us who put them, the women, in a favorable position always. I want to repeat that I am addressing to men who consider that 'enough is enough and something must be done'.
We are not sufficiently united and in solidarity with ourselves. It is very normal to exist the competition and rivalry between us men, because it makes us stronger and more confidants. But this should only be rivalries between us and in any case between us, on one side, and women on the other side, and especially no rivalry between men because of a woman.
As we look after woman, also they looked after us. As we wonder if we are good enough for some women we like, at the same time they ask themselves the same questions.
Now I begin to explain my point of view in a bit more detail. So what is my point here?
How would you feel my fellow gentlemen, if in our civilized society we live in when a woman would be interested in a man, and would ask herself if it is quite right to enter into a relationship with him, actually she would already know clearly and unequivocally answer: No!
And not because it would be something wrong about her but simply because he is only interested in her person, but only in the 'services' on which she can offer. More importantly, he will manifest his interest only when is required conjectural.
The only reason to have a woman in the house would be given by our need of hiring a maid. And a respectable man should do so.
The basic idea is that we men would need to be united. Put up the basis and establish a club (exclusively for us) where to meet and work together in order to make progress. To talk honestly and openly about all the problems we have and to offer our support and help each other.
How would you feel my fellow gentlemen, if in our civilized society we live in when a woman would be interested in a man, and would ask herself if it is quite right to enter into a relationship with him, actually she would already know clearly and unequivocally answer: No!
And not because it would be something wrong about her but simply because he is only interested in her person, but only in the 'services' on which she can offer. More importantly, he will manifest his interest only when is required conjectural.
The only reason to have a woman in the house would be given by our need of hiring a maid. And a respectable man should do so.
The basic idea is that we men would need to be united. Put up the basis and establish a club (exclusively for us) where to meet and work together in order to make progress. To talk honestly and openly about all the problems we have and to offer our support and help each other.
Each of us has strengths and weaknesses and I between us could help one another to move safely over the problems that challenge us.
We should continue to learn and study all the time (everyone of us about what he likes and can be beneficial to him in a short and long term), to drink less or as little as possible, to eliminate bad habits, to continue to advance professionally, learn to lay the foundation our own business and anything else that would help us to advance in society.
I think a key issue is money. We men have a strong sense of safety and confidence when we have money (a lot of money). Money constitutes both a hot and sensitive topic for everyone: women and men. So what would we need to do to in order to control the finances, in a word to possess the power (or the highest percentage). As they say: 'Who owns the gold makes the rules of the game'.
My idea is that we men should support each other in order to seize power in society. That we should hold important positions in the company and also us to have the vast majority of existing and future businesses. I'm sure we can do this even if it takes time. But when we succeed, under no circumstances we should ever change the status quo.
But everything we can do as men, of course women can do as well. As we won’t need them they would have no need of us. However, I believe that we are much stronger and determined and that we have several advantages compared to them.
I am convinced that if we want to succeed and try long enough, we will put build the foundation of a society where women would become a 'detail' or a ‘gadget’.
We should continue to learn and study all the time (everyone of us about what he likes and can be beneficial to him in a short and long term), to drink less or as little as possible, to eliminate bad habits, to continue to advance professionally, learn to lay the foundation our own business and anything else that would help us to advance in society.
I think a key issue is money. We men have a strong sense of safety and confidence when we have money (a lot of money). Money constitutes both a hot and sensitive topic for everyone: women and men. So what would we need to do to in order to control the finances, in a word to possess the power (or the highest percentage). As they say: 'Who owns the gold makes the rules of the game'.
My idea is that we men should support each other in order to seize power in society. That we should hold important positions in the company and also us to have the vast majority of existing and future businesses. I'm sure we can do this even if it takes time. But when we succeed, under no circumstances we should ever change the status quo.
But everything we can do as men, of course women can do as well. As we won’t need them they would have no need of us. However, I believe that we are much stronger and determined and that we have several advantages compared to them.
I am convinced that if we want to succeed and try long enough, we will put build the foundation of a society where women would become a 'detail' or a ‘gadget’.
Why should we buy a disc with a new movie if we could only rent it?
You may ask: ‘What about having children?’ Do not worry about this problem.
Everyone wants to have an heir someday, but we do not need to be in a relationship with a woman in order to achieve that. Anything is possible today.
We can start to pay in kind. It is important to become more powerful and our role in society to be more influential. Women want money and power as much as we us.
We can start to pay in kind. It is important to become more powerful and our role in society to be more influential. Women want money and power as much as we us.
The idea is to find solutions that will weaken the authority and influence they have in society. In time, the transfer of power must be total and irreversible (very important).
When they will begin to lose ground in front of us, and that would happen constantly, also their confidence will start to drop. Imagine that more and more men alone would not be interested any longer in a relationship with a woman, but would spend as much time (for a wide range of activities) as possible in the company of other men. Interactions between us would become more powerful and intense, and every man would widen his circle of friends, and this would be for everyone’s benefit.
Also important is to get to the point where there would exist competition between us on issues regarding women. We should have other more important reasons to challenge each other. Also I want to emphasize that women should have access restricted in our circle, of men, and only when they are invited by us (briefly) because we need certain services they might provide. And I think that any kind services should be paid, and in this way we will always drawn a clear line of separation. You should send a clear message: 'When we need you for any reason, we know where to find you.' But to make this work, money and power must be in our side, as mentioned above.
I'm not saying that this whole process should treat women badly in any way.
When they will begin to lose ground in front of us, and that would happen constantly, also their confidence will start to drop. Imagine that more and more men alone would not be interested any longer in a relationship with a woman, but would spend as much time (for a wide range of activities) as possible in the company of other men. Interactions between us would become more powerful and intense, and every man would widen his circle of friends, and this would be for everyone’s benefit.
Also important is to get to the point where there would exist competition between us on issues regarding women. We should have other more important reasons to challenge each other. Also I want to emphasize that women should have access restricted in our circle, of men, and only when they are invited by us (briefly) because we need certain services they might provide. And I think that any kind services should be paid, and in this way we will always drawn a clear line of separation. You should send a clear message: 'When we need you for any reason, we know where to find you.' But to make this work, money and power must be in our side, as mentioned above.
I'm not saying that this whole process should treat women badly in any way.
On the contrary, we should continue to become more civilized, courteous, and polite and to have a great conduit, as well. We should determine them to be interested in our person. At the same time to train ourselves and learn to treat them with contempt. Also, do not ever underestimate women and do not forget how much we can still learn from them and still for long time. So, let’s put together an appropriate plan of time and also learn to take advantage of their weaknesses. And especially learn to not give anything in return.
The answer and solution to our problems is in us. We just have to shake hands and work together against the 'common enemy'. As we will achieve perfection more and more professional and especially material, the more we will be better able to dominate them and to rewrite the rules of the game (in our favor only). If the number of men interested in these ideas that I expose here, will grow more and more, I wonder what will happen.
The answer and solution to our problems is in us. We just have to shake hands and work together against the 'common enemy'. As we will achieve perfection more and more professional and especially material, the more we will be better able to dominate them and to rewrite the rules of the game (in our favor only). If the number of men interested in these ideas that I expose here, will grow more and more, I wonder what will happen.
What will do the ladies who are single and looking to find a partner? They probably will adjust their attitude and tactics. I am not sure what their response would be but I am convinced that no matter what they will do it, we men will be able to counter their actions as long as we are united and work together.
I spoke with a friend and I explained that my ides. His advice was to write an article about it and try to communicate to as many men who are in a similar situation, as possible. I decided to write a blog that outlined some ideas for starters.
I spoke with a friend and I explained that my ides. His advice was to write an article about it and try to communicate to as many men who are in a similar situation, as possible. I decided to write a blog that outlined some ideas for starters.
I wonder if there is any kind of interest around this content. I'm sure there will be much divided opinions. But if this article will find echo among men, I would appreciate to receive any comments. If there is interest from some of us, when we initially established a discussion forum and then put up a club or organization, to begin to meet and make plans to follow. I am very confident that we have more success if we work together and everybody bring his contribution.
Depending on positive or negative response (and also, the percentage registered) you will receive, I will come back with another article or not.
We must remember that everything always started with a great idea.
Depending on positive or negative response (and also, the percentage registered) you will receive, I will come back with another article or not.
We must remember that everything always started with a great idea.
